Genesis 48:13 “But Israel stretched out his right hand and put it on the head of Ephraim, the younger, and crossing his hands, put his left on Manasseh’s head, although Manasseh was the firstborn.”
If you grew up with brothers or sisters you already know that life isn’t always fair. I remember sharing a box of my favorite cereal with my brothers when I was a young and hungry teenager. It felt like if you didn’t hoard the box, then you would never see those Fruity Pebbles again because their were two other hungry teenage mouths to be fed. Growing up with 2 brothers and a sister, I remember saying things like “that’s not fair” and “You let Nathan and Tommy do it”. I don’t know how my parents dealt with it, since I can assume that all four of us would say those things to them.
In today’s reading we can see that Jacob blesses Joseph’s younger son over the older one. This was very counter cultural at the time, but seems to be a common theme in Genesis. Throughout the book, Moses shows that God is not concerned about cultural faux pas, but instead sees the heart of a person–at times even before that person is born (Genesis 25:19-25).
So, what can we learn from this? First, no one is worthy of the blessings that come to them. Ephraim didn’t deserve the blessing that Jacob passed to him over Manasseh, instead it was a gift from Jacob. We, too, don’t deserve our blessings. We are given even our very breath from God. We would be wise to understand that our life’s accomplishments and abilities are God given, and use them in a way that demonstrates our understanding of that fact.
Secondly, we can learn from this passage, that nothing is ours to demand. Manasseh, according to culture, had every right to demand his blessing from Jacob. But when Jacob crossed his hands and blessed his younger brother, Ephraim, instead he was forced to accept a new truth, “He too will become a tribe, and he too will be great; nevertheless, his younger brother will be greater than he, and his offspring will become a populous nation”(Genesis 48:19). This means to those of us to behave well in order to receive our prize would be wise to humbly offer our lives to God, not in order to demand something of Him. We aren’t in any place to negotiate with God.
Let’s take time today to humbly come before God, thanking Him for all that we have, understanding that he is the giver of life and blessing and that we are blessed in knowing that fact.





